We find ourselves getting into relationships when we are not properly prepared. There are 5 important signs a person must show to signify that he/ she is ready to get into a relationship. They are:
- Self Awareness
You must have first discovered yourself and defined who you are as a person and what you want to be known for. The road to self-discovery is an interesting journey that exposes your capabilities, your strengths, your weaknesses, your attributes, temperament, skills, goals, beliefs, and potential. Self-discovery influences how we connect with people. Once you are aware of yourself it’s a sign that you are ready for a relationship.
- You know what you want.
After you have discovered yourself, it becomes easy to know what you want out of life. You then set goals and how you intend to achieve them. Clearly set goals for the different aspect of your life like relationship goals, career goals e.t.c. This will help you stay focus and make the right decisions.
One cannot achieve anything without set goals and aspirations. For relationship goals, you should be able to ascertain exactly what you want out of any relationship. It really does not have to be intimate relationships but make sure you are clear on what you want out of any relationship you happen to find yourself in.
- Self Evaluation
You must be honest and truthful with yourself. We all have goals we are looking to achieve and plan on how to achieve these goals. After setting your goals look at where you are at the moment and check if you are on the path to achieving these goals that you have set. Knowing where you are at every point in your life is evaluating your goals and determining how far you have reached them. It simply helps you keep track and focus so you do not miss out on anything.
- Awareness on Life Destination
Life is a journey, however every journey has a destination. For every set goal, there is an end point, goals can be said to be a destination. From your set goals, you determine the final end point.
- Strategy to maximizing full potential
So you have discovered yourself, you know what you want, where you are and where you are going. The question now is what strategy do you implement to get to your final destination? It will be pointless if we observe the above-mentioned things and do not have a clue on how to get to the final destination. You will need to put measures in place to help you achieve all that you have set out to do.
Once a person has shown these signs, he/she is definitely ready for a relationship because this will signify that the relationship will be based on purpose.
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